By using this site, you agree to the Privacy Policy and Terms of Use.
Accept
SDN Logo SDN Logo Transparent
Self Weight Loss banner
  • Divorce
  • Single parents
  • Blended family
  • Spouse
  • The Ex
  • Co parenting
  • Divorce lawyers
Smart Divorce NetworkSmart Divorce Network
Font ResizerAa
  • Divorce
  • Single parents
  • Blended family
  • The Ex
  • Divorce lawyers
Search
  • Divorce
  • Single parents
  • Blended family
  • Spouse
  • The Ex
  • Co parenting
  • Divorce lawyers
Follow US
Smart Divorce Network > Single parents > How I prepared my child for my divorce? Learn the 4 best ways.
Single parents

How I prepared my child for my divorce? Learn the 4 best ways.

SDN Brahim
By SDN Brahim
Published September 17, 2020
Last updated: April 21, 2025
Share
4 Min Read
How I prepared my child for my divorce

So, you want to know how to disclose this news in front of your child that both of you are going to be separated. It is not a good incident for your child. He or she will be shocked definitely. It is a dreadful and serious incident for every child. Kids do not want that their parents have a breakup. We love our family, friends, and relatives. This is the reason no one wants to leave any one of the parents. For the majority of the children, it is a painful thing but important is to educate kids about parent’s divorce. They should not feel it as painful as they feel it now. Every parent thinks, have I prepared my child for my divorce?

Contents
Take them in confidenceDo not dodge his questionsReply simply and brieflyExpress your emotions

Take them in confidence

This is not normal. Kids show their sorrow in the bite-sized chunks. Sometimes children take it very seriously and they are sensitive as well. This environment leaves very deep impact on their mind and health. If children are attached with father or mother then it leaves very negative influence on their personality. To avoid this harmful situation that can insecure children, it is vital to prepare them about breakup. Divorce is a strange thing for them and they are not able to understand its concept.

You know very well, that it is sad and heartbreaking for them. At this time, you must manage the situation. I prepared my child by telling him the draw-backs of living together. It was really hard to handle.

Do not dodge his questions

If your child is a preschooler, then it will be a problem for you. If your child is not emotional on divorce, then you can describe about the separation. Take him with you on the ground walk and help your child to explain about that his parents will not live in a same house. Maybe, he will ask some questions. Reply these questions as lightly as you can.
Tell him stories about the people who do not live with both of their parents but they can meet them when they want to. This situation sometimes frightens the child. They do not want to leave their parents. You need to provide an emotional support this time.

Reply simply and briefly

Toddlers have no sense to handle too much information. Teens can understand the divorce but they do not like it. This situation makes them irritated. It is important to lead then in a proper way. Do not ignore their sentiments. You must facilitate them with your support.

Express your emotions

Sadness is an important part of divorce or separation for adults and children. Avoid using words that can frighten children. If you are using the words that are too light, then they may be against you. So, you need to show your sadness. The excessive grief, mourn and sadness can create depression and fear in children. It is vital to tackle the children according to the sensitivity level.

info related to divorce
SDN Brahim

SmartDivorceNetwork.com Thanks to all our contributors; Independent Writers, Journalists and Guest Gloggers for helping the site to became better with good an engaging content and for keeping our readers up to date with the most recent information about divorce.

Share This Article
Facebook LinkedIn Copy Link Print
BySDN Brahim
Follow:
SmartDivorceNetwork.com Thanks to all our contributors; Independent Writers, Journalists and Guest Gloggers for helping the site to became better with good an engaging content and for keeping our readers up to date with the most recent information about divorce.
1 Comment 1 Comment
  • Pingback: Why divorce can be more stressful for the man instead of women

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

You must be logged in to post a comment.

how to join affiliate programs banner

Explore More

How to Tell Kids About Divorce: A Comprehensive Guide

The divorce process is difficult not just for the parents but also…

4 Mistakes To Avoid When Getting a Divorce

When we enter a marriage, we honestly believe it will be forever.…

How I prepared my child for my divorce? Learn the 4 best ways.

So, you want to know how to disclose this news in front…

Holidays – How To Plan And Execute

With Easter coming, I found it fitting to talk about the holidays.…

Divorce Forums – Talk To Others

There is no doubt that going through a divorce is a difficult…

Self Weight Loss banner

You Might Also Like

co-parenting during covid-19 era
Single parents

Co-parenting – a patient job during COVID-19 era after divorce.

By SDN Brahim
Child Support
Single parents

Proving Your Child Support Is Not Being Used To Support Your Child

By SmartDivorceNetwork
single mom grants
Single parents

Single Mom Grants: Empowering Financial Futures

By SDN Brahim
single mom quotes
Single parents

49 Single Mom Quotes to Celebrate Resilience & Love

By SDN Brahim
SDN Logo Transparent

Smart Divorce Network is here to promote divorce care and help you take the stress and uncertainty out of your divorce. We also have a wealth of resources to guide you as you decide whether or not to file for divorce, as well as once your divorce is finalized and you are looking for the next steps. An amicable divorce may seem like a pipedream, but it can be achieved, and we are here to help you get there.

From our home page, you can explore all sections of the site, determine whether a divorce is what you really want, and learn how to live single again once your divorce is finalized.

Categories
  • Divorce
  • Single Parents
  • Blended Family
  • Divorce Lawyers
  • The Ex
  • Spouse
  • Health & Wellbeing
  • Co Parenting
  • Divorce Mediation
Company
  • Terms of Use
  • Disclosure Policy
  • Write For Us
Follow Us
Facebook Twitter Instagram Envelope

Copyright © Smart Divorce Network. All Rights Reserved

Welcome Back!

Sign in to your account

Username or Email Address
Password

Lost your password?